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Yes No - Do you lose sleep because of a problem drinker?

Yes No - Do most of your thoughts revolve around the drinker or problems that arise because of his or her drinking?

Yes No - Do you make him/her promise things he/she may not be able to keep?

Yes No - Do you make threats you don't follow through on?

Yes No - Do you at times love, and at other times hate, the alcoholic?

Yes No - Do you mark, hide, dilute, and/or empty the drinkers alcohol?

Yes No - Do you believe everything will be all right if the drinker quit or cut down?

Yes No - Do you feel alone, fearful, anxious most of the time?

Yes No - Are you beginning to dislike yourself, or lose your self respect?

Yes No - Do you sometimes question the accuracy of your thinking or your sanity?

Yes No -Do you feel responsible and guilty for the drinkers actions?

Yes No - Do you try to conceal, deny, or protect the drinker?

Yes No - Have you kept alone, or out of public situations because of being embarrassed about things the drinker has done or will do?

Yes No - Have you taken over responsibilities the drinker would ordinarily do?

Yes No - Do you feel responsible for the family affairs, including bills and finances?

Yes No - Do you feel the need to justify or rationalize your actions?

Yes No - Do you feel smug or self righteous compared to the drinker?

Yes No - Do the children take sides?

Yes No - Do the kids sometimes wonder why you can't control the others drinking?

Yes No - Do the kids excuse the drinker because they know the drinkers actions are because of the alcohol, but then wonder what is wrong with you?

Yes No - Are the kids having problems with authority figures, acting out sexually, letting grades slip?

Yes No - Do you feel utterly defeated, that nothing you can say or do will solve the problem?

Yes No - Are you sometimes repulsed by the drinker?

Yes No - Do you sometimes use sex to make the drinker conform?

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